Your messenger is your menace

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That must be one helluva decision to make...

1. Should You "temporarily" click the UnBlock Button?
   

2. Is what you're looking for worth having to wait the 72 hours reblockability purgatory? 😊😊😊
   

3. 3. Is what you've heard worth seeing outside of the screenshots and murmur?
   

4. Just to figure out or have to accept the realization that - "Your Messenger is really Your Menace", and the "Rumor Mill" has you hating/blocking/deleting/backstabbing the wrong person...
   

#wesuddenlyseeyourcomments #yourmessengerisyourmenace #72hrstoblockagain #forgivenessandrestorationaredifferent

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That was is a post that I shared on FB that inspired this rant. I had to continue in depth or at least from another perspective; although upholding the demographic of my original thought.

I am "guilty" big time at listening to the "Messenger". However, it and always has been for "informational purposes". No by no means am I hypercritically stating that its "ok" for you to partake in rumor mill telephone talk. No, not at all. What I am stating is - I do listen, when the information being carried is regarding ME.

I take ALL information brought to me and I do my own investigative work, if I find a need or If it is worthy of any further thought for me at all. It depends on the obvious THE: Who, What, Where, When, Why and How. However - this all has to pertain to me - NOT anyone else. I am not gonna gossip or run tell that bs that others spew. I will/have listened to what is said about ME, then determine:

1. WHO I am going to possibly have to confront, watch, suspect, side-eye and or move differently with?
   

2. WHAT is being said. What are the circumstances of the subject? What the motives are of the parties that are partaking of My nectar? Moreover, what my next move is with the individuals at hand?
   

3. WHERE is my current relationship with the parties involved?
   

4. WHEN did this information possibly happen?
   

5. WHY would that individual have that to say about me and or If it is true. Why is what is being said, being said.
   

6. Lastly HOW is this information benefiting me, the individuals at hand and of course the bone bringer - MY MESSENGER.
   

"People" tell me things ALL the time. Partly because - I listen and the bigger part is that they NEVER hear what they tell me repeated. I am HUGE on protecting ANONYMITY! I will Not answer the proverbial question that follows the guilty inquisition of "Who Told You That?". I will not expose someone for telling me something that they think I should know because they feel I am being harmed in some sort of way. I will NOT whistle-blow 🤐, but I will listen (I think it is because I grew up a solo child and I was nosey as hell, I didn't have any one to talk to but me most of the time 🤷🏾‍♀️ don't on my fantasy world from my youth dammit) .

What I have grown into the wisdom of "knowing" is - the first place to travel of an "unguilty" heart. It is not to try to find out "WHO" exposed them. The first thought is often "Why would someone try to harm the person I Love?". So with that knowledge I have come to find that the common first inquisition of the "unguilty" is - "Why would someone tell you something like that?". Because someone that loves you doesn't want to do you any harm and therefore, naturally they want to know - who does.

Which leads me to the fact that soooooo many have asked me - Why do you even listen to "them"? And my response is always " 'Cause I wanna know, dammit I'm Nosey! It's my business they talking, shoot, I have the right to know!".

Yet, I do know "My Messenger is My Menace". However, "They be know'n" 😆😆😆. For the bulk of it, the message being delivered is 95% truth. I know this, because I am very selective as to who my "Messengers" are and well the other 5% is worth that fact that I don't trust them either (hehehehe, Hint: most of the time it is an insider of the crew that's doing the talking to me). 😁 BTW, yes I do boldly ask my messenger - "What did you have to say?". Hence, I know that My Messenger is often the one that keeps the circus going. So - "I Be Knowing"!!! 😉

Knowledge is power. Power and Knowledge are my guilty pleasures. I feel powerful knowing those harsh things that people utter - they don't know that I know. They have no knowledge that I am aware that they've said or done some harsh things to harm me. Hell many don't know that a lot of times I have heard it for myself firsthand (BEWARE: the 3-Way-Call still exist so be ye o' so careful! It's corny but - Oh well 🤷🏾‍♀️).

I could be very wrong in participating this behavior and to some this can be looked upon as being crazy. But, I see it as a contribution to my growth. It is my own tough love of self in sorts. For nothing else, I can look in the face of those with their fake Love for me and know how they verbally assassinate my character and stab me in my back, yet I hold my head up and vibe high. I can smile BIG because I am growing. They are the tools that the creator is using to chisel me into my greatness. I Love still with a Big Heart. My Messengers just lend me a hand in knowing who NOT to waste my precious Love and active self on any longer. The beautiful demented side of me - Loves my menace abundantly, because "What the enemy means for bad, God means it for Good". I simply say to those that are participants Thank You for keeping My Menace in Business - I appreciate you! SMOOCHES!!! 💋

Long story short the moral of this message probably has NOTHING to do with this whole damn post. You are Great Beyond the Hate!!!! That is all(.)